Why I stopped: writing my next book

I podcast and write about niche topics which I unpack into essential elements to more easily understand them. Sometimes, my books are about what I do professionally as a consultant to solve problems. Occasionally, a book topic reveals an upcoming market before it becomes popular, like Gen AI (in 2022) or Blockchain (in 2017). Sometimes, a book topic reveals M&A activity (in 2017).

I was going to publish my next book by Spring of 2024. And then I stopped.

Why did I stop? The short answer is the topic was not niche enough.

The topic was meaningful and valuable, but better already existed on the topic.

The topic has to be poorly understood by most people so I can provide clear insights and understanding in the form of a book.

The general topic already had 50,000 published books and counting. That is way too popular.

Even though there were plenty of original thoughts on this topic, I don’t do “me too” books.

The topic in question was getting more people to mentor. It will likely be separate blog posts instead of a book.

A popular topic is not good enough for me or my audience.

Process for selecting book topics (corrected)

First, I find a topic that piques my curiosity. These are all non-fiction.

Then, I collect resources: audio, video, text, graphics, and photos. Scholarly, opinionated, or not. I also find both clear and obscure data.

Then I research it. Thoroughly. Sometimes for months.

Then, I talk to the best people in the world about the topic I can find who are willing to speak openly. At the same time, I validate there is an audience for this podcast and book. I often record podcast interviews with those people.

Then, I transcribe those interviews. And some don’t get released.

Did all that. Learned a lot. Repeatedly.

Once I find too little out there about a topic and a group of people in the world are quietly working on that topic, only then do I start writing.

My mistake was I thought I had spotted a niche topic because getting people to mentor is more challenging to see happening today, but it still exists and is not new. Nor is mentoring virtually.

So, I am starting over. Researching my next book topic.

It will take more time. Precisely 10% of my time per week is dedicated to researching everything that piques my curiosity as part of life and learning. Eventually, a niche topic will be worth creating a book.

So, I am just getting started. Again.

How do I: deal with Artificial Intelligence

Before our time, the world was in a pre-Industrial Revolution phase, and we did not know any better. As we entered the Industrial Revolution, we left the agricultural fields of hand-picking crops for the factories, creating more jobs.

In my lifetime, I can still remember the slow pre-computer Revolution phase. As we entered the computer revolution, we eventually stopped doing some monotonous tasks that could be done faster/better/cheaper with computers. Even more jobs were created.

As I write this, most of the world is still in a mostly pre-artificial intelligence (AI) revolution phase (based on the worldwide adoption of AI). This has started to change in 2023 when we got a taste of useful, relevant AI technologies like:

  • text-to-text (like ChatGPT)
  • text-to-image (like Midjourney)
  • text-to-video (like Synthesia)

AI user adoption

There are AI users and then there is everyone else. You determine your own inclusion.

AI users are creating, iterating, and learning by actually using the latest technologies. Many of these technologies are inexpensive to use and iterate their output if we push the bar higher than we ever could before.

Many people are still in the group of people still fearing, still waiting, still resisting, and still lacking understanding. They lack the understanding of:

  • how is it relevant to us
  • how is it relevant to what we do
  • what is it
  • what does it do
  • how does it work
  • safety and governance
  • its user-friendliness and intuitiveness

All these things get answered as you learn to use the AI tools.

Should we fear AI?

The same group that fears AI also listens to fear-mongering stories that promote fear, uncertainty, and doubt (FUD) around us. The storytellers promote FUD because it attracts more eyeballs than positive stories; more eyeballs sell more ads, and more ads equals more money for their owners.

Is AI perfect? No. Neither are humans. If AI is too perfect, humans don’t like it because it is less human-like. And the vicious cycle continues.

Does AI need governance? Yes, it exists.

Digital media, as we still know it today, is what we can see and hear. This will evolve to include our other senses, such as touch, scent and taste. All electronically. Don’t believe me? You already have a mobile device that has haptics which does basic touch with vibrations.

At the beginning of 2022, I published my 9th book, Synthetic Media: The Next Reality, about machine-generating media. By the end of 2022, we had ChatGPT, which I use daily.

AI first

Ask the AI to do a task first. If AI can not do it within minutes after a few prompts, only then should you rely on people to do tasks that need to be done slower and less consistently.

Should we keep waiting?

We could wait to learn how to use AI instead of actually using these technologies now.

We could also choose to not use computers. We could ignore all devices (like some people still do).

We could ignore any motorized transportation.

We could do everything by hand. We could do this by candlelight for full effect.

We could resist change by ignoring it and hope it goes away. Again.

We could wait and devolve faster.

We could become less significant than we already are and continue to be okay with it.

We could ignore AI tools meant to aid us.

We could learn to use AI.

We can choose to wait for no one.

We can choose to not be laggards because we don’t need to wait to move forward with a crowd.

We can choose to embrace change for the better instead of resisting the inevitable.

We can choose to use AI to benefit me and my work.

What are you waiting for?

What do you choose to do with AI?

How do I: deal with constant change

When it comes to change, remain aware of it. 

Accept it or reject it. It will not care either way. So why should you?

Dance with change when possible. 

Then, move forward, with or without that change in mind.

Change is rarely within our control, so it should not control our lives unless we allow it. 

We may zag when it zigs, and we should be ok with that.

It is not about feelings because change does not care.

We can try to be an agent of change.

Don’t wait for acceptance or approval. Otherwise, very little gets done.

Move forward regardless of change. 

Move purposefully with a clear focus, forward momentum, and good intentions. 

Worst case scenario, we learn more.

How do I: consume news

Time to consume news should be limited.

When I shower, I consume news. I select several news briefs from various news sources on numerous topics of interest to consume in audio form only. Once I am finished getting dressed, I stop listening to the news for that day. This may take about 15 minutes.

If the news is not relevant, skip to the following brief.

News is a myopic view of current events.

Our ability to discern what is relevant and essential is critical.

When it comes to news, very little is within our control, and even less affects us directly in any way.

How we dress for the weather is within our control.

The weather takes less than a minute to consume and understand.

Consume some news briefly to stay aware and prepared.

Do not let news consume you. News should not become a time suck or a mind suck.

Our time is better spent elsewhere.

Consume less news and get more things done that matter.

Tools I Use: not-to-do list

Lots of us have to-do lists.

Some of us schedule the to-do (task) with the time assigned on our calendar.

Fewer of us have a not-to-do list. Literally a list of things we should not do ourselves or at all. Why?

Our time is limited, and valuable and we don’t need to do it ourselves. Or eliminate the task all together. You could also delegate it or automate it. Find out how below.

Kudos to Tim for the idea of the not-to-do list. Tim Ferriss has his not-to-do list, which are great ideas.

What is on my own not-to-do list as far as tasks?

  • Creating lists of contacts/companies to reach out to (use Upwork instead)
  • Copywriting for marketing purposes (ChatGPT, yes, use a machine to do it faster and often better than a person)
  • Coming up with gift ideas (ChatGPT)
  • Scheduling calls with back-and-forth messages (All calls scheduled through calendly.com with my fixed availability for calls each month that updates with my one master calendar)
  • Recording podcasts asynchronously (Try Rumble.studio and record podcast interviews without the podcaster and interviewee speaking together)
  • Editing podcasts (use Upwork instead)
  • Proofreading or editing my own book (Upwork)
  • Technical tasks (Upwork that are not worth my time and effort to do myself)
  • Creative tasks (Fiverr and not pretend I am a designer)
  • Shop at many different brick-and-mortar stores for the same product (this is what Amazon or Google Shopping is for… to stop wasting your time).
  • Buying wet and dry food for my pets (Petco.com repeat delivery every three months solves this too)

What is on your own not-to-do list?

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